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Mean Comments on youtube..
Okay I know this is probably stupid but it really bothers me because i have really low self esteem and this girl I guess commented on my friend and I's video and she said:
okay i know your just having fun but... i am very judge mental and i get annoyed by ugly things and i just got so annoyed form watching this video that i got pissed off now thats bad.

I know you said you had people say mean things about you and I was just wondering how you deal with it cause that comment is really bothering me. I honestly don't get why people try to tear others down. I don't just get on videos and say bad things and leave mean comments I mean I may think something in my head but i'm not going to try to intentionally hurt them.

Thu, 30 Jun 2011 02:20:25 -0400

Its sad, but people are like that. Especially when they can hide behind a computer screen. Brush it off. The down fall of posting youtube videos is that its to the public & people can have their own opinions & everyone can view your videos. Just know that those peoples opinions don’t matter girl. Do your thang. If you wanna make videos, make videos. But you have to understand people are going to be hurtful. Its sad, but unfortunately, there are some people out there that is like that. Forget those people!

-Weylie

Question 14: Don’t Live in the Past

Mon, 06 Jun 2011 20:36:52 -0400

Question 14: Don’t Live in the Past

Question 13: Don’t Lose Hope in Relationships

Mon, 06 Jun 2011 19:38:00 -0400

Question 13: Don’t Lose Hope in Relationships

Question 9: Long Distance Relationship

Thu, 02 Jun 2011 22:01:19 -0400

Question 9: Long Distance Relationship

Question 4: Does he just want some? anonymous asked….Is...

Wed, 01 Jun 2011 04:38:17 -0400

Question 4: Does he just want some?

anonymous asked….

Is there anyway you can tell if a guy is trying to get at you with true intentions of being in a relationship or just to get “some”?

Question #3 hey weylie / jay ! last weekend i dropped by my...

Wed, 01 Jun 2011 04:26:00 -0400

Question #3

hey weylie / jay !

last weekend i dropped by my ex’s graduation just to congratulate him. we exchanged numbers and everything went well. he’s been texting me for days and he’s saying the cutest things and we’re catching up. he’s been on the back of my mind lately but we’ve broken up 3 years ago. i want things to work out between us since we didnt end off well. he just randomly stopped replying after awhile and its bugging me … am i being led on ? thanks in advance. :)

Question 2: When 1 Person Stops Trying in the Relationship

Wed, 01 Jun 2011 03:49:56 -0400

Question 2: When 1 Person Stops Trying in the Relationship

Our new way of answering questions! We’ll randomly chose...

Wed, 01 Jun 2011 03:07:58 -0400

Our new way of answering questions! We’ll randomly chose one of the questions & respond to them with a video. A lot of questions we’re asked fall under the same category, so hopefully your question can be answered this way too! :)

Enjoy :)

-Weylie

weylie i noticed that your eyebrows have gone thicker from when i first started watching you, did you let them grow out or something cus i wanna change the shape of mine and i really like yours but when you let them grow out you get stubble if you get what i mean. anywaysss what did u dooo to them lol

Sun, 15 May 2011 07:31:24 -0400

Hey :) I did grow them out a little, but they are still very sparse. I fill them in with eyeshadow now :)

-Weylie

is flirting with a guy cheating???

Sun, 15 May 2011 07:30:21 -0400

In my opinion , it is a little bit. Or i’d call it disrespecting your significant other. If you really liked someone, why would you want to flirt with someone else and get attention from someone else? Similar to cheating, why would you do things “physically” with someone else when you already have someone? Does that make sense? lol

-Weylie

Can you explain the meaning when a person calls you cute, pretty, beautiful, sexy, hot, or gorgeous? I know that they're just synonyms, but nowadays they have pretty distinctive meanings when labeling a guy or girl.

Sun, 15 May 2011 07:28:12 -0400

Everyone interprets these words differently..But this is how I usually take it. lol

Cute: you’re bubbly & fun.

Pretty: you look good.

Beautiful: they admire you.

Sexy/ Hot: nice body

Gorgeous: well taken care of.

LOL, thats just how I see it. Might not be accurate. It depends how you take it :)

-Weylie

Dear Weylie,
I've been talking to this one guy for over a year already, but he plays this game where he stops talking to me for weeks at a time. And then he starts talking to me out of no where again like nothing jappened. He constantly does it, do you think he's just a waste of time? If not then what do you think I should do about it?

Sat, 14 May 2011 01:50:32 -0400

Honestly, I think he is a waste of time. Or maybe he’s not wanting to pursue a relationship w/ you. He probably see’s you only as a friend & he’ll talk to you occasionally when he misses you, AS A FRIEND.

But if you feel like when you guys talk, he acts like he wants to pursue a relationship w/ you, he might be playing a game. If someone wanted you, they would want to talk to you pretty often.

You should talk to him and ask him where you guys stand as of right now. Does he have feelings for you, tell him how you feel, etc. Goodluck :)

-Weylie

weylie.. I have been crying a lot lately because i feel like im sharing my boyfriend with his bestfriend which is a girl.. he says he loves me and all that, but he also told me he cant handle a relationship before.. & I have been with him for 1 year and 2 months.. He cheated on me once, but i gave him another chance because he felt very bad and i still loved him.. but now.. I feel like him and his bestfriend should go out and im just in the way.. I feel like I am too annoying because I cry so easily.. I am also very stressed because of family problems.. I told him that, but he kept saying no, he loves me and i wont be second choice. But the thing is, i think that his best friend likes him because she borrows his clothes, and asks him to pick her up when he is already home.. He tells me about it and asks for my opinion but,
I told him that I trusted him.. But deep down I have doubts.. & I cant let him go because I really love him.. Any suggestions ? Please answer this..

Sat, 14 May 2011 01:48:09 -0400

First of all, you SHOULDN’T feel like you’re getting in the way. If anything, his friend should feel that way. I know how you feel about feeling like you’re annoying to him. But if you feel like you’re annoying him, then stop. Start thinking positive even tho things in your life might not be on great terms. Staying positive will help you get thru things easier :) If you already told him about your problems and he is understanding about it, believe him. If you keep doubting him, he is going to get annoyed eventually.

As for his bestfriend, you need to talk to him about it. Its cool that he has a bestfriend who is a girl, but then again, the girl needs to know where she stands. If he doesn’t do anything about it, maybe you should talk to her. Goodluck! I hope things get better for you. They will eventually, I promise. So don’t worry!

-Weylie

Hey weylie, since you're 5'6 do u ever get insecure about ur height ? i always feels like no guys will like me cuz im pretty tall ! :(

Sat, 14 May 2011 01:43:30 -0400

I used to be insecure about my height, I worried about the same thing! LOL. But just remember just because your tall, doesn’t mean its a bad thing. It just means you get to look for the taller guys! lol. Trust me, being tall is a good thing. I love being tall.

-Weylie

WEYLIE
What happens when you do find "the one", everything you've been waiting for, you see him in the long run, that forever feeling, that feeling as if it's been what you've been wanting the whole time, just perfection.
but he ends up cheating on you & leaving you for the other girl

Thu, 12 May 2011 04:12:02 -0400

Unfortunately, things like that do happen. You may feel a strong connection for someone, but they might not feel the same about you. And if the person cheats, you should just let that person go. No one deserves to be cheated on. The least he can do is break up with you first, then meet someone new. You don’t want/need someone like that in your life. You will find better, I promise! <3

-Weylie

no tinychat tonight?

Thu, 12 May 2011 04:10:38 -0400

Most likely no :/

-Weylie

(for weylie) how can you try to make a guy like you if he goes to a different school and you guys don't talk or see eachother much?

Thu, 12 May 2011 04:09:41 -0400

You CAN NOT MAKE a person like you! The person will like you if you guys connect. Don’t force it. If its not meant to be, its just not meant to be.

-Weylie

this one is for weylie.

so me & this guy have been talking to each other for 3 weeks already. but things arent the same anymore. our conversations die faster, it doesnt seem like he still has feelings for me, & i always have to hit him up first now.. do you know if these are any signs in him losing interest ? /; what should i do??

Thu, 12 May 2011 04:08:25 -0400

He might be losing interest, or he just wants you to try now. In the beginning, he put in most the effort. Chances are, he’s tired of making the first move so he’s backing down to see how much effort you’re willing to put in. But if you do put in effort and he seems to not care, then maybe he really did lose interest. Thats when you have to just move on. Afterall, you did try to work things out, and if it doesn’t work out, it wasnt meant to be.

-Weylie

its not about relationships...but yeah :)
for weylie:
where do you get your clothes? and what kind of dance do you take? thanks! i need to get my mind off boys..and i think shopping and taking dance will do the trick! ahaha (x

Thu, 12 May 2011 04:06:23 -0400

I shop mostly at Forever 21 & Victoria Secrets :)

yes, shopping does the trick! haha

-Weylie

Do you believe in the quote that if you love someone you should let them go? I always thought if you loved them, you should fight for them? lol

Thu, 12 May 2011 04:05:45 -0400

I think the saying is kind of true. True, you should fight for someone if you love them. But sometimes, there’s that time & space where letting go is a better option. Hm..for example. If you’re graduating highschool, and you both are moving far apart from each other. & you guys both don’t think you guys can handle the distance. You might let go of that person because you love them and you want them to have a good future. You’re not letting go because you don’t love them. You’re letting go because you love them and want the best for them.

Corny i know, but does that make sense? lol

-Weylie

http://askjaylie.tumblr.com/

Question 14: Don’t Live in the Past

Question 13: Don’t Lose Hope in Relationships

Question 9: Long Distance Relationship

Question 4: Does he just want some? anonymous asked….Is...

Question 4: Does he just want some?

Question #3 hey weylie / jay ! last weekend i dropped by my...

Question 2: When 1 Person Stops Trying in the Relationship

Our new way of answering questions! We’ll randomly chose...

is flirting with a guy cheating???

Can you explain the meaning when a person calls you cute, pretty, beautiful, sexy, hot, or gorgeous? I know that they're just synonyms, but nowadays they have pretty distinctive meanings when labeling a guy or girl.

Hey weylie, since you're 5'6 do u ever get insecure about ur height ? i always feels like no guys will like me cuz im pretty tall ! :(

WEYLIE What happens when you do find "the one", everything you've been waiting for, you see him in the long run, that forever feeling, that feeling as if it's been what you've been wanting the whole time, just perfection. but he ends up cheating on you & leaving you for the other girl

no tinychat tonight?

(for weylie) how can you try to make a guy like you if he goes to a different school and you guys don't talk or see eachother much?

its not about relationships...but yeah :) for weylie: where do you get your clothes? and what kind of dance do you take? thanks! i need to get my mind off boys..and i think shopping and taking dance will do the trick! ahaha (x

Do you believe in the quote that if you love someone you should let them go? I always thought if you loved them, you should fight for them? lol

WEYLIE
What happens when you do find "the one", everything you've been waiting for, you see him in the long run, that forever feeling, that feeling as if it's been what you've been wanting the whole time, just perfection.
but he ends up cheating on you & leaving you for the other girl

its not about relationships...but yeah :)
for weylie:
where do you get your clothes? and what kind of dance do you take? thanks! i need to get my mind off boys..and i think shopping and taking dance will do the trick! ahaha (x